Family Communication Issues

Qiuestion: Discuss the six relationship and communication issues that are correlated with low marital satisfaction? Answer: Introduction Like any other relationship marriage too undergoes through periods of distress (Segrin Flora, 2011). In almost all the cases of martial distress, communication is found to play a very vital role. Interpersonal relationship factors, social and economical factors and pre marital factors are the three key factors that lead to martial distress (Fine Harvey, 2013). Patterns of martial communication are recognised to be the key predictor of subsequent declines in marital satisfaction. Communication issues lead to martial distress which in turn results in damaging the communication between husbands and wives. Six relationship and communication issues that are correlated with low marital satisfaction When communication between husband and wife is marked by criticism, disagreement and guilt induction it leads to highest marital dissatisfaction (Burleson Denton, 1997). Conversations of this type often result in considerable negative effects or emotions which soon become evident in their behaviours(Baucom Epstein, 2013). Couples that face issues of reduced martial satisfaction, exhibit negativity when they interact with each other which in turn gives rise to negative emotions (Berger Hannah, 2013). Negative communication patterns give rise to negative emotions such as disgust, anger, contempt, fear and sadness which are evident in their non-verbal as well as verbal behaviours(Burleson Denton, 1997). Cross-complaining is a common communication issue where complaints are met with equally strong complaints(Fine Harvey, 2013). These communication issues are some of the most ineffective ways of conflict resolutions and are correlated with low marital satisfaction. Efforts made by ma rried couples to provide negative feedback while communication with each other in order to prove their superiority is another common communication issue that leads to reduced marital satisfaction(Segrin Flora, 2011). Disrespecting each other, talking in a raised pitch and expressing anger publically are some relationship and communication issues faced by married couples and are reasons for reduced marital satisfaction(Baucom Epstein, 2013). Demand-withdrawal patterns where one spouse presents a demand, complaint or criticism and the other spouse responds with defensiveness and withdrawal is also a cause of marital dissatisfaction. Contrary to this appreciating and respecting each other likes, dislikes and choices is correlated with high marital satisfaction(Berger Hannah, 2013). Assertive communication style and a soft tone of voice develop positive perception for each other. While interaction it is important to be a good listener and understand the reason behind complaints rather than complaining in return. Providing emotional support when needed and motivate each other to live their own lives as well while living for the family leads to high marital satisfaction. Developing a relationship of trust by keeping things transparent and well informed helps reducing conflicts. Establishing eye contact while talking to each other and use of words that show respect for individual differences that exists between the couple(Fine Harvey, 2013). Spending quality time together and considering complaints as a feedback from spouse which when addressed will help improving marital relations. No two individuals are same and to experience high marital satisfaction it is important to respect and enjoy individual differences. References Baucom, D. H., Epstein, N. (2013). Cognitive-Behavioral Marital Therapy. New Jersey: Routledge. Berger, R., Hannah, M. T. (2013). Preventive Approaches in Couples Therapy. New Jersey: Routledge. Burleson, B. R., Denton, W. H. (1997). The Relationship between Communication Skill and Marital Satisfaction: Some Moderating Effects. Journal of Marriage and Family, 59 (4). Fine, M. A., Harvey, J. H. (2013). Handbook of Divorce and Relationship Dissolution. New York: Psychology Press. Segrin, C., Flora, J. (2011). Family Communication. New Jersey: Routledge.